Recently I went to dinner with some of my Hetro homies, a new dude came alone with us.
Everyone knows about me, we have been friends with years, well while eating, they new guy
says...so your the gay one? You don't act gay or look gay. My friends just stopped eating...I
looked a the dude and said..."neither do you."...I think he got the hint. now I love when people
are themselves. do you have fun. But its obvious that most of mainstream america, think that
gay men are automatically feminine. When I meet women that try to come on to me, and I tell
them that I am gay, they automatically assume I am down low, and I am not...i am just private
and proud of it. There are some feminine brother out there, no big deal....be you. BUT when
does it cross the line in to attention whoring?when does it become a caricature, a stereo type
that is unfortunately attached to every gay man? Does the gay community have a shortage of
"regular, masculine men?" Talk back,